Seems the Colour Picker Tool is missing from the default set of tools on Affinity Photo Beta for Windows. You can add it going to menu View ▸ Customise Tools.... On the Mac version it appears between the Move Tool and the Crop Tool. I'm logging this.
As far as I can see, the ability to preview exported images is, as yet, only a roadmap item for AD. It's one of the missing features that will mean I won't purchase the software.
The AD 1.5 blurb at https://affinity.serif.com/en-gb/ui-design-software/announces that AD is "the perfect tool for UI and UX design". But without any way to preview and/or assess the quality of the output images, isn't it difficult to use AD for these purposes? Seems to me that you have to adopt the trial-and-error approach.
But maybe I've misunderstood how we're expected to work. What do other users do in the absence of an export preview feature?