I'm not offended. I'm trying to help my daughter's co-worker who has 82GB of photos and is having issues with her MacBook Pro slowing down. No surprise, especially since she has a mid 2012 13" base model, but I'll upgrade some of her hardware then work on figuring out a better workflow for her. AP with DAM could be what she needs. She's not computer literate but uses the photos as part of a side job she has. iPhoto/Photos has been enough for her needs but it might be time for her to evaluate her future needs.
The first DAM I used was Canto Cumulus a real long time ago but I had money at work to buy these overly expensive enterprise level applications. Not any more!
I just found Affinity Photo a few weeks ago and bought it so my adult daughter and I could learn it before traveling to Fairbanks Alaska next March for a wedding and to view the aurora borealis.